Oliver’s Bar Mitzvah

Frequently Asked Questions

Morning Service

When and where is the service?

Saturday, September 5, 2026
10:15 AM – 12:00 PM
Congregation B'nai Shalom
Westborough, Massachusetts

Can parents attend the service?

Absolutely! Parents, family members, and friends are warmly invited to join us for the Bar Mitzvah service. We'd love to celebrate this special milestone with you.

I've never been to a Bar Mitzvah. What should I expect?

A Bar Mitzvah is a Jewish coming-of-age celebration marking a boy's 13th birthday. Oliver has put in a lot of work to prepare for this event. During the service, Oliver will help lead prayers and read from the Torah.

There will be times when the congregation stands and sits. If you're unfamiliar with the service, simply follow those around you. Prayer books will be provided, and everyone is welcome.

What should I wear?

The dress code for both the morning service and the evening celebration is semi-formal.

Think of what you might wear to a wedding, holiday celebration, or special family event.

Can I take photos during the service?

Please silence your phone before entering the sanctuary.

Out of respect for the service, we ask that guests refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. There will be opportunities for pictures before and after the service.

Will there be food after the service?

Yes! Immediately following the service, everyone is invited to stay for a luncheon as we continue celebrating together.

Evening Celebration

When and where is the party?

6:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Highfields Country Club
Grafton, Massachusetts

Is the evening party drop-off?

Yes. The evening celebration is a drop-off event for Oliver's friends.

What will the kids be doing?

The evening will include dinner, music, dancing, games, and plenty of fun as we celebrate Oliver with his friends and family.

What time should I pick up my child?

Please plan to pick up your child promptly at 10:00 PM.

What if my child has food allergies or dietary restrictions?

Please let us know when you RSVP so we can do our best to accommodate your child's needs.

Still have questions?

Feel free to contact Tarah (774-253-4955) or Ben (508-331-2187) anytime. We're looking forward to celebrating this special day with you!